Let’s talk openly here. The truth is women love to have sex as much, if not more than men. Of course, we only fully enjoy ourselves when our sexual partner does well and allows us to. Unfortunately, this is not always the case; even though many men consider themselves better in bed than they actually are, we have the last word and for many of us, there are many mistakes men make during sex.
Today, sex is talked about more openly among partners and friends, which is why it is normal to hear a man tell his colleague what makes him an “expert” in the subject. Nonetheless, women often remain unsatisfied and truth be told, rarely do men notice, since many of us, women, tend to be discrete and a little “nice” in order to spare their feelings.
Communication plays a very important role in revealing preferences, fantasies, and desires in relationships. However, a couple often fails at this because of many myths, cultural trends, and mistakes that lead men to think they’re doing well in bed, when in reality their partner is not fully enjoying themselves.
In this article, we’ll share some of the most common mistakes men make during sex, for men who may be overconfident in thinking they are great in bed.
Please, caress well or don’t at all
The clitoris is much more complicated than the penis, but there is no doubt that it is one of our greatest weaknesses during sex. Men, be more gentle while touching the clitoris, since it is a very sensitive part of the body that one needs to know how to stimulate correctly. The majority of you tend to be rough when you want to touch, without realizing this simply “blocks” the pleasure we want to feel.
Learn to play with our breasts
The majority of us love our breasts to be touched as it is one of the most sensitive parts of the body. However, some touch in an extremely rough way, as if they were balls, or who knows what; once again blocking what we want to feel. It is true that passion makes us crazy and all that… but please be a little more gentle.
Note: it’s not quantity but quality
This is another one of the big mistakes men make, since the majority value quantity over quality, since they associate the capacity of having more than one orgasm with youth and virility. There is no doubt that men are competitive in every sense of the word, especially if it has to do with intimate relationships, which is why men tend to brag about their records. Numbers are very important to them since they can be measured and compared, making them feel better. However, they remain unaware of the fact that quality is much more important for women.
You don’t dedicate enough time to foreplay
Dear men: penetration is not the only pleasurable part, so don’t expect us to feel satisfied if that is all you do. We have bodies full of weak spots ready to explore, which is why you can rest assured that if you don’t explore them, the woman won’t be satisfied.
Don’t over “spank”
A spank at the peak of passion isn’t bad and can even excite someone sexually. Yet spanking after spanking as if you are about to whip off her rear end crosses a line and is no longer something good.
Whispers make it better
If you are making love, there is nothing better than an “I love you” or any number of sweet words. However, you almost always get carried away with a more rough and carnal sex. Don’t say “Do you like it?” “Am I doing okay?”… Just cut it out and don’t bore us. Forget about worrying if we like it, and you will likely figure it out.
Don’t eat our ears
How could a slobbery ear possibly be erotic? It’s true, the ear can often be a sensitive part of the body, but please… don’t overdo it. A light caress with the tongue will do, and no one will enjoy someone practically eating their ear and leaving it full of slobber.
Don’t suck our big toes
What kind of weird fetish is this?! Most of us don’t enjoy this, and it isn’t normal at all. For many, nothing is grosser than feet.
And you? Would you add any mistakes men make during sex to this list?